A Reverend, Sex Worker & Son
By The Daily Beast’s Micheal Ellsberg
If you assume, as I do, that sex work is legitimate work that should be destigmatized, then ideally it would be something that adults in the worker’s family can discuss openly, honestly, and respectfully. Unfortunately, due to criminalization and stigmatization, that is far from standard in most families. Sex workers often report that one of the most difficult things about sex work is the need to hide it (and lie about to to keep it hidden) from family members; this “double life” can lead to a terrible feeling of isolation.
For these reasons, I’m moved by the love and acceptance my friend and creative collaborator Ckiara Rose has been able to find with her mother and her son.
Ckiara, 50, has done almost every kind of sex work since she started stripping at age 19, including escorting, brothel work in Nevada, and porn; she now focuses on sensual massage and professional Dominance.
Ckiara’s mother, Reverend Josephenie Robertson, 76, is an elder from the Miskitu people of Central America. Ckiara’s son Saycsar Fleurima, 27, is a filmmaker. They work together as a family on activism for the human rights of Miskitos; Ckiara uses much of her funds from sex work to support her indigenous activism.
To my knowledge, this is the first time an out sex worker has been interviewed alongside both her parent and her adult child. Josephenie is a devout Christian, and as she explains in this interview, had a difficult time coming to terms with her daughter’s chosen profession. However, as is evident from the tenderness and humor in the interview, Josephenie has come to acceptance and love for Ckiara and her chosen life path—the same love and acceptance Sayscar has always felt for his mother and her work.
Read more:
https://www.thedailybeast.com/a-sex-worker-her-christian-mother-and-adult-son-in-conversation
https://youtu.be/CE-h2UMT31M
https://www.thedailybeast.com/a-sex-worker-her-christian-mother-and-adult-son-in-conversation?
Ckiara Rose
If I were committing genocide or starving millions or co-“whore” ting with politicians, rulers, “dick” tators, and big business that creates unnecessary suffering, so that a few can have more than they could want or thumb their nose at people…I’d be ashamed!
About the Author
Hello Everyone Welcome to Ckiara Nation! This is Ckiara (silent C) Rose. I am the hostess of Ckiara Nation. Ckiara Nation is a platform where adults can speak frankly and openly about sexuality, All forms of discussions leading to solutions to the Inbred racial hate, stereotypes, and assumptions about different groups of people from all sides, politics, advocating for a responsible adult, consensual, sexual, that is as much an Inalienable Right as being born or dying! “The Nation”, strives to replace erotic stigmas, myths, and stereotypes with educated research, occasional expert guests, including sex workers, adult entertainers, clients, customers, allies, and the enemies who oppose. We are here to help those who seek to release their indoctrinated inhibitions, explore all life, gain empowerment through sex, its genres, politics, teaching responsibility/consent in real life, embracing our fantasy, role plays, having fun, visiting and exploring taboo, and much, much, more! Bottom Line: I have a burning passion and love for my work. I have suffered hell in the past, directly related to the status quo’s illogical indoctrination of sensual and sex shame! I had my child stolen by the system due to nonconformity. I relented and stood my ground against their sexual shaming and female role & worn ideology… to both my own and my sons’ pain! Had I surrendered most likely I wouldn’t be here because I would have sold my soul! This show is so that his growing up age 8 to 20 without me, means something and for all the other misunderstood, misrepresented people, also sex workers, and adult entertainers, I met who took a job they hated, could no longer spend time with their families, turned to drugs because they could no longer afford a roof over their heads and had their kids taken after they caved into social conformity through forced assimilation and return to sex shame, self-loathing and poverty. Also, the people stuck in abusive or unhappy life! I just don’t believe in this sex shame bullshit!! This World is for all! No exception! I still hold to my belief, there is nothing to shame oneself about in the arena of consenting adults! We can not evolve away from the trafficking of humans, racism, bigotry, and gendercide if we cant be comfortable in our own skins, can't even talk about the thing that created us all and return to nature! If I were committing genocide or starving millions or co-“whore” ting with politicians, rulers, “dick” tators, and big business that creates unnecessary suffering, so that a few can have more than they could want or thumb their nose at people…I’d be ashamed!You Might also like
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